Things go wrong. Crap happens: that's my moto "Crap happens". Whether that Crap is a war against an innocent country, a murder in the hood,or a broken heart; crap happens. Once it happens there is no changing it, there is only dealing with it.
There are some things that we can prevent and there are some that we can't .. then there are the things that we think we can change but destiny has already set ahead of us. No matter, Once it has happened we can't change it, only deal with it... make the best and embrace it... Crap happens - this is an imperfect world, but it's all we have.. embrace it.